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Shared Parenting
In these videos, former foster parent Donna Foster explains shared parenting in foster care, discusses common challenges, and offers advice to foster parents. Part 1 (2 min.) Part 2 (2 min.) Part 3 (2 min.)
Suicide and Self-Injury in Children and Teens
This 1-hour course helps resource parents understand suicide and non-suicidal self-injury in children and adolescents and teaches them how to respond. Take course…
Promoting Brain Gains for Youth Emerging from Foster Care
This 4-minute video discusses adolescent brain development and ways child welfare systems inhibit or encourage opportunities for the successful transition to adulthood. To download the report this video is based on, click here.
Trauma and Behavior
This video series covers how trauma affects the brain, why traditional behavior management approaches often don’t work, the importance of positive relationships for healing, and advice for struggling caregivers. Part 1 (5 min.) Part 2 (4 min.) Part 3 (5 … Continued
Additional Resources
Supporting Permanence
Adopt US Kids
This is the national photo listing service for children awaiting adoption across the United States.
http://www.adoptuskids.org/
This is the national photo listing service for children awaiting adoption across the United States.
http://www.adoptuskids.org/
North American Council on Adoptable Children
Supports, educates, inspires, and advocates so adoptive families thrive and every child in foster care has a permanent, safe, loving family.
https://www.nacac.org/
Supports, educates, inspires, and advocates so adoptive families thrive and every child in foster care has a permanent, safe, loving family.
https://www.nacac.org/
Post-Adoption Support and Resources in NC
Visit this page to learn about the post-adoption resources the NC Division of Social Services makes available to North Carolina families.
https://www.ncdhhs.gov/divisions/social-services/nc-kids-adoption-and-foster-care-network/post-adoption-support-and
Visit this page to learn about the post-adoption resources the NC Division of Social Services makes available to North Carolina families.
https://www.ncdhhs.gov/divisions/social-services/nc-kids-adoption-and-foster-care-network/post-adoption-support-and
Lifebooks can be so valuable. They are tools that can help eliminate young people’s confusion about their lives, answer their questions, and fill in gaps in their life story. They permanently record the fact that we care about them and their well-being.
https://fosteringnc.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/13366/2021/10/Lifebook-Links.pdf
https://fosteringnc.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/13366/2021/10/Lifebook-Links.pdf
Foster Care and Beyond: Kinship Foster Care and Guardianship Assistance
Concisely explains the difference between licensed and unlicensed kinship foster care, defines guardianship, and outlines the eligibility requirements for NC’s Kinship Foster Care and Guardianship Assistance Program (KinGAP).
Concisely explains the difference between licensed and unlicensed kinship foster care, defines guardianship, and outlines the eligibility requirements for NC’s Kinship Foster Care and Guardianship Assistance Program (KinGAP).
Comparison Chart for Caregivers
Answers common questions about the important differences in North Carolina between unlicensed and licensed kinship foster care, legal custody, legal guardianship, and adoption.
Answers common questions about the important differences in North Carolina between unlicensed and licensed kinship foster care, legal custody, legal guardianship, and adoption.
Tips and insights from foster families who are outstanding supporters of reunification. Developed by the American Bar Association.
https://www.americanbar.org/content/dam/aba/administrative/child_law/ParentRep/Reunification_Tip_Sheet.authcheckdam.pdf
https://www.americanbar.org/content/dam/aba/administrative/child_law/ParentRep/Reunification_Tip_Sheet.authcheckdam.pdf
Suggestions from the American Academy of Pediatrics.
https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/adoption-and-foster-care/Pages/Tips-for-Helping-Children-and-Teens-Before-and-After-Visitation.aspx
https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/adoption-and-foster-care/Pages/Tips-for-Helping-Children-and-Teens-Before-and-After-Visitation.aspx
Parenting Kids in Care
Child Welfare Information Gateway: Resources for Foster Parents
Offers information on supports, the fundamentals of parenting kids in care, working with birth families, and adopting a child from foster child.
https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/outofhome/resources-foster-families/
Offers information on supports, the fundamentals of parenting kids in care, working with birth families, and adopting a child from foster child.
https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/outofhome/resources-foster-families/
Foster Care and Adoption Resource Center (of Wisconsin)
This site has a Reading Room that offers Guidebooks, Tip Sheets, and other resources on a wide range of topics, including working with birth parents and raising resilient children.
https://wifostercareandadoption.org/
This site has a Reading Room that offers Guidebooks, Tip Sheets, and other resources on a wide range of topics, including working with birth parents and raising resilient children.
https://wifostercareandadoption.org/
NC Foster Parent Competencies
In 2013 stakeholders from our state’s child welfare system developed this list of the knowledge, skills, and attitudes important to being a successful foster or adoptive parent. This list may serve as a helpful point of reference when thinking about your areas of strength and areas where you need more training or support.
In 2013 stakeholders from our state’s child welfare system developed this list of the knowledge, skills, and attitudes important to being a successful foster or adoptive parent. This list may serve as a helpful point of reference when thinking about your areas of strength and areas where you need more training or support.
NC Reach
A state-funded scholarship for up to 4 years of undergraduate study at NC public colleges and universities. Offered to qualified applicants who were adopted from the NC Division of Social Services foster care system after the age of 12, OR who aged out of NC DSS foster care at age 18. Also provides comprehensive student support, including mentors, care packages, and internships.http://www.ncreach.org
A state-funded scholarship for up to 4 years of undergraduate study at NC public colleges and universities. Offered to qualified applicants who were adopted from the NC Division of Social Services foster care system after the age of 12, OR who aged out of NC DSS foster care at age 18. Also provides comprehensive student support, including mentors, care packages, and internships.http://www.ncreach.org
This guide for caregivers and youth-serving adults explains exploitation and human trafficking and how to protect a vulnerable youth.
https://www.dhs.gov/sites/default/files/publications/blue_campaign_youth_guide_508.pdf
https://www.dhs.gov/sites/default/files/publications/blue_campaign_youth_guide_508.pdf
Describes steps parents should take to ensure children and youth are safe online.
https://www.vpnmentor.com/blog/the-ultimate-parent-guide-for-child-internet/
https://www.vpnmentor.com/blog/the-ultimate-parent-guide-for-child-internet/
A great place to find resources for helping children and teenagers recover from traumatic events.
https://www.nctsn.org/audiences/families-and-caregivers
https://www.nctsn.org/audiences/families-and-caregivers
Fostering Health NC Online Library
This online resource library from the NC Pediatric Society contains tools for establishing and supporting medical homes for infants, children, adolescents, and young adults in foster care. http://www.ncpeds.org/?page=FHNC
The following handouts from the library may be of particular interest to resource parents:
This online resource library from the NC Pediatric Society contains tools for establishing and supporting medical homes for infants, children, adolescents, and young adults in foster care. http://www.ncpeds.org/?page=FHNC
The following handouts from the library may be of particular interest to resource parents:
- Guidance for Foster/Kinship Caregivers
- Foster Care Well Child Check-Up
- Keeping Children in Foster Care Healthy
- Parenting After Trauma (A Guide for Foster and Adoptive Parents)
- Medication Safety
- 5 Tips to Help Your Child Sleep
- Helping Your Child in Foster Care Handle Transitions
- Foster Care Dictionary
Fostering Perspectives
This publication is a rich trove of valuable information by and for resource parents on a wide range of topics. Many supervising agencies issue 30 minutes of training credit to foster parents who complete the quiz in each issue.
http://www.fosteringperspectives.org
This publication is a rich trove of valuable information by and for resource parents on a wide range of topics. Many supervising agencies issue 30 minutes of training credit to foster parents who complete the quiz in each issue.
http://www.fosteringperspectives.org
Harvard Center on the Developing Child
Seeks to achieve breakthrough outcomes for children facing adversity. Their resource library offers working papers, recorded lectures, infographics, and briefs on a variety of interest to resource parents, including toxic stress, resilience, neglect, child development, and executive function.
https://developingchild.harvard.edu/
Seeks to achieve breakthrough outcomes for children facing adversity. Their resource library offers working papers, recorded lectures, infographics, and briefs on a variety of interest to resource parents, including toxic stress, resilience, neglect, child development, and executive function.
https://developingchild.harvard.edu/
Youth Voice
Represent Magazine
Publishes true stories by teens in care that show how they tackle tough issues like getting along with foster parents and managing difficult emotions. Teens say the stories make them feel less alone. Each issue includes independent living lessons.https://www.representmag.org/
Publishes true stories by teens in care that show how they tackle tough issues like getting along with foster parents and managing difficult emotions. Teens say the stories make them feel less alone. Each issue includes independent living lessons.https://www.representmag.org/
SaySo: Strong Able Youth Speaking Out
A North Carolina association of youth aged 14 to 24 who are or have been in out-of-home care. SaySo’s mission is to work to improve the substitute care system by educating the community, speaking out about needed changes, and providing support to youth who are or have been in substitute care.
http://www.saysoinc.org
A North Carolina association of youth aged 14 to 24 who are or have been in out-of-home care. SaySo’s mission is to work to improve the substitute care system by educating the community, speaking out about needed changes, and providing support to youth who are or have been in substitute care.
http://www.saysoinc.org
Support for You
Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina
This statewide association focuses on recruiting new foster and adoptive parents, offering assistance and training to existing resource families, and establishing needed changes in policy.
https://www.ffa-nc.org/
This statewide association focuses on recruiting new foster and adoptive parents, offering assistance and training to existing resource families, and establishing needed changes in policy.
https://www.ffa-nc.org/
National Foster Parent Association
This nonprofit provides education and training to foster parents and promotes excellence and best practice in foster care.
https://nfpaonline.org/
This nonprofit provides education and training to foster parents and promotes excellence and best practice in foster care.
https://nfpaonline.org/
It also offers free online training to caregivers via the NFPA Training Institute.
https://www.nfpati.org/
North American Council on Adoptable Children
Supports, educates, inspires, and advocates so adoptive families thrive and every child in foster care has a permanent, safe, loving family.
https://www.nacac.org/
Supports, educates, inspires, and advocates so adoptive families thrive and every child in foster care has a permanent, safe, loving family.
https://www.nacac.org/
Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
Useful advice for grandparents who have stepped in to serve as the primary parent for their grandchildren.
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/parenting-family/grandparents-raising-grandchildren.htm
Useful advice for grandparents who have stepped in to serve as the primary parent for their grandchildren.
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/parenting-family/grandparents-raising-grandchildren.htm
Foster Care and Beyond: Kinship Foster Care and Guardianship AssistanceConcisely explains the difference between licensed and unlicensed kinship foster care, defines guardianship, and outlines the eligibility requirements for NC’s Kinship Foster Care and Guardianship Assistance Program (KinGAP).
Comparison Chart for Caregivers
Answers common questions about the important differences in North Carolina between unlicensed and licensed kinship foster care, legal custody, legal guardianship, and adoption.
Answers common questions about the important differences in North Carolina between unlicensed and licensed kinship foster care, legal custody, legal guardianship, and adoption.
NC Agencies and Programs
NC Division of Social Services (NC DSS)
This agency oversees the administration of North Carolina’s child welfare system. https://www.ncdhhs.gov/divisions/dss
This agency oversees the administration of North Carolina’s child welfare system. https://www.ncdhhs.gov/divisions/dss
SaySo: Strong Able Youth Speaking Out
A North Carolina association of youth aged 14 to 24 who are or have been in out-of-home care. SaySo’s mission is to work to improve the substitute care system by educating the community, speaking out about needed changes, and providing support to youth who are or have been in substitute care.
http://www.saysoinc.org
A North Carolina association of youth aged 14 to 24 who are or have been in out-of-home care. SaySo’s mission is to work to improve the substitute care system by educating the community, speaking out about needed changes, and providing support to youth who are or have been in substitute care.
http://www.saysoinc.org
NC Kids Adoption and Foster Care Network
A source of support for foster and adoptive families. NC Kids is also North Carolina’s online registry of children from the foster care system who are legally free for adoption. NC Kids connects waiting children with families, offers matching services for waiting children with pre-approved families registered with NC Kids, and provides adoption support services, including information on how to get started on your adoption.
Hotline 877-625-4371 or email nc.kids@dhhs.nc.gov
https://www.ncdhhs.gov/nc-kids-adoption-and-foster-care-network
A source of support for foster and adoptive families. NC Kids is also North Carolina’s online registry of children from the foster care system who are legally free for adoption. NC Kids connects waiting children with families, offers matching services for waiting children with pre-approved families registered with NC Kids, and provides adoption support services, including information on how to get started on your adoption.
Hotline 877-625-4371 or email nc.kids@dhhs.nc.gov
https://www.ncdhhs.gov/nc-kids-adoption-and-foster-care-network
NC Reach
A state-funded scholarship for up to 4 years of undergraduate study at NC public colleges and universities. Offered to qualified applicants who were adopted from the NC Division of Social Services foster care system after the age of 12, OR who aged out of NC DSS foster care at age 18. Also provides comprehensive student support, including mentors, care packages, and internships.http://www.ncreach.org
A state-funded scholarship for up to 4 years of undergraduate study at NC public colleges and universities. Offered to qualified applicants who were adopted from the NC Division of Social Services foster care system after the age of 12, OR who aged out of NC DSS foster care at age 18. Also provides comprehensive student support, including mentors, care packages, and internships.http://www.ncreach.org
Post-Adoption Support and Resources in NC
Visit this page to learn about the post-adoption resources the NC Division of Social Services makes available to North Carolina families.
https://www.ncdhhs.gov/divisions/social-services/nc-kids-adoption-and-foster-care-network/post-adoption-support-and
Visit this page to learn about the post-adoption resources the NC Division of Social Services makes available to North Carolina families.
https://www.ncdhhs.gov/divisions/social-services/nc-kids-adoption-and-foster-care-network/post-adoption-support-and
Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina
This statewide association focuses on recruiting new foster and adoptive parents, offering assistance and training to existing resource families, and establishing needed changes in policy.
https://www.ffa-nc.org/
This statewide association focuses on recruiting new foster and adoptive parents, offering assistance and training to existing resource families, and establishing needed changes in policy.
https://www.ffa-nc.org/
NCCARE360
This site is is the first statewide coordinated care network that better connects individuals to local services and resources.
https://nccare360.org/
This site is is the first statewide coordinated care network that better connects individuals to local services and resources.
https://nccare360.org/